Influence by Design Method
8 Steps to World Power
Amplify the power of your influence by consciously designing all 10 of your personal
Pump up support and ZAP! irritations.
1: Create Your Ideal Village
Create a picture of the ideal learning
environment that helps you to become the parent that can fulfill all your promises.
2: Pattern Language
Craft short phrases (3 to 5 words) that
capture the essence of being the powerful influence for your child.
3: Benchmark Present Environments
Evaluate the present condition of your 10
4: Name Present Patterns
Compare present conditions to your pattern
language and give it all a name.
5: Identify Tolerations
Make a list of tolerations, i.e.,
distracting things that bother you.
6: ZAP! Tolerations
Clarify the irritation as you learn and
appreciate the value it brings, then ZAP! it 110%.
7: Conduct Experiments
Create experiments that test the affect
small changes in your environment has on your ability to influence your kids powerfully.
8: Allow Evolution
Move from imitation (copying others), to
adaptation (making the most of situations), and into being the parent who naturally and effortlessly influences
everything in her world.